Girls vs Grown Women

I've been in a casual debate with someone for some time now about certain things as it relates to how women should carry themselves in a relationship, and ironically I ran across this poem and it says in these few stanzas more than I can ever say with my extensive vocabulary. I know it's been a long time since i posted but I've had some major stuff to take care of. This is me exercising my fingers to get rolling again. I've gotta get y'all caught up! So for once, Y'all aint wrong for this....Enjoy & let me know your thoughts.

Girls vs. Grown Women

Girls leave their schedule wide open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls try to put a man "on lock" by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.
Girls fake-moan, lay there ant take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop," get up, get dressed and walk it out.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it - using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls take advantage of the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come.
Grown women make you want to come home.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e. don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love back - and move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and ask.which one am I?